I've written a lot about enjoying the victories and celebrating family milestones here. And it's because I went to therapy and learned how to separate the rotten from the ripe, instead of living in a black and white mind where you're good or you're bad, you've arrived or you're failing. It's so important to learn to celebrate and to sit back in awe of how far you've come. Do you have something to celebrate? This is about process not perfection. Take the time to cheer for yourself and your family, even if those on the outside looking in think it's silly or insignificant.