With the emergence of all the allegations being made about Harvey Weinstein, I'm finding myself a little bit frustrated. And I'm not quite sure how to explain what I'm feeling without crossing a line into dishonoring the incredible courage it takes to come forward and share about sexual assault. Here's where my concern lies: in our valiant efforts to support victims who come forward (which we UNDOUBTEDLY need to support), sometimes a subtle shaming subtext takes place for those who choose not to come forward.